Maybe It's Just Me ...

Maybe it's just me, but i'm sick of going on Facebook and seeing statuses about people bashing the other sex. Dudes do this way more then women do (at least on my friends' list) but women do it too. It looks stupid. Everyone under the sun has gotten rejected/played and if they haven't yet, they will eventually. And getting your heart broken or feeling rejected isn't worth bashing a WHOLE entire sex over. Like "women are so fake", or "all men are dogs". It's simply not true. And if you want people to think that you aren't hurting by doing that, it just makes you look desperate, petty, and bitter. And NO ONE wants to be with anybody who is like that. Men and Women have their differences. Shit we always will. I don't understand 95% of the things men do, and i'm sure they don't get our tactics as well. We have our excuses that only work for us. Women can always use their periods and PMS to act like a big baby, and a bitch. And men can always say that "it's just in their nature" to do stupid shit, because sadly enough it truly is. All i know is we can't have one without the other and i don't think men are disposable creatures. Women aren't either. Whether we try to hide it or not we all have feelings, we all hurt, and we all want to be loved. Maybe i'm being a cornball right now, but shit its true. So instead of being a sexist either shut up or play for another team already ! Thanks :)

Farewell .

This is perhaps the most sad ending to a year yet. Three of my favorite people are leaving. I just wish them the best in their endeavors and hope that even though they are leaving that our friendships remain as strong as they are now. I Love Y'all && Will miss y'all. I know that it's meant to be this way and everything happens for a reason, i just have a feeling that in the long run this will be the best thing for everybody, no matter how sad it might be.

follow me .

Remember Confessions? Wasn't that like the best album ever? I was just listenin to "Follow Me" && i am really feeling this song right now. The lyrics are running parallel to my life at the moment but, lemme refresh ur memory: "There's more to my life then people could ever know. Sometimes i gotta smile, when i don't feel like smiling ; sit back && ride when i feel like driving. Nobody understands but you... ; Ooo i cant believe it...you came just in time with what i needed." Well that's the part that is making me feel some type of way anyway. I ♥ music !

-Besos, Melieka

MIA = Misunderstood .

i feel a backlash coming on . Every Thursday nite @ 10PM i tune into Taking The Stage [ which is my favorite thing to watch on TV right now ] . Do you? Well if you don't, you should. But i just need to let something out. Everybody is giving Mia a hard time about this Tyler situation. Um , are we watching the same show? We all saw Tyler and Jasmine "fall in love". We all ALSO saw Tyler flirt with Mia . Personally I think if you think Mia is a "boyfriend stealer" you are out of your mind. Tyler CLEARLY likes Mia. Personally i think Mia would be better for him . If you haven't noticed Mia seems truly supportive of Tyler, and he's clearly supportive of her whereas with Jasmine, Tyler and her have some sort of competition going on. Tyler was wrong for cheating. And Tyler is clearly a flirt with game, who actually should probably be single. But i think Mia is way better for him than Jasmine. I like Jasmine .. i think she should be with JJ or somebody else ! lol . But back to my original point. First of all Mia didn't even know that Jasmine and Tyler were together. She did hear that they were together, but it was Tyler that told her he wasn't with Jasmine. I understand why Jasmine doesn't like Mia, but to every girl in the country watching Taking the Stage, um Tyler ain't your boyfriend so is there a reason why YOU don't like Mia? I don't feel like she is fake or anything for liking Tyler or even hating on their relationship. Mia got played point blank. So did Jasmine. If either of them were smart they would move on with their lives. But if Tyler were to actually be with one of them i personally wish it was Mia. I think he truly likes Mia, i think he just found her too late =/ I'll stay tuned in and keep coming up here weekly to vent i'm sure .

- Besos, Melieka


PS :

Taking The Stage - MTV Shows

Sounds so good ; she could be from England . lmao .